Private Lessons

Learn what you want with coaching sessions tailored to your needs.

I’m at your service.

One-size-fits-all teaching doesn’t work for everyone. I offer individualized sessions to help you, your partner(s), or your organization learn what’s most helpful to you. This is a great option for folks who:

  • are exploring something new and could use help, advice, encouragement, or a sounding board

  • need help adapting what they’re learning for their specific relationship, dynamic, circumstance, or organization needs

  • struggle with some aspect of sex or kink and want a safe space to work through it with a pro

  • want to explore a topic not on my current class list

“Dagger is truly one of the greatest teachers… Her explanations are extremely informative; both concise and rich at the same time. She has a great capacity to lead a room and to make people feel heard and like they really get the material. She even helped me with my workshop… I always leave her presence feeling nothing short of life-changingly inspired. She is always highly consent- and accessibility-conscious.”

—Claire

How does this work?

Step 1: Fill out the form below to let me know what you’re looking for.

Step 2: I’ll email you to book your coaching session. I might ask some follow-up questions to help clarify your goals and zero in on what will be most helpful for achieving them.

Step 3: I’ll draw up a lesson plan based on your individual needs and questions.

Step 4: We’ll meet together over Zoom! I offer some in-person coaching sessions — see my rates below for more information.

“Dagger consistently creates comfortable, encouraging environments for learning. Not only does she share important safety and technical skills, her fun anecdotes and knowledge of resources demonstrate her extensive experience in the scene. Working together is a breeze… and her offerings on both general and more niche topics have gotten great attention at our venue.”

—Adah Vonn,
Headmistress of Less Dead Studio

What do you want?

Let me know what’s on your mind by filling out this intake form, and I’ll help you get where you want to go. Have a question not answered on this page? Check the FAQ, or contact me here.

    • 1 hour: $99

    • 90 minutes: $129

    • 2 hours: $149

    • 2 people: +$29/hour

    • 3 people: +$49/hour

    • 4+ people: +$19/hour/person

  • If you struggle with online learning, or want a chance to get embodied practice while we work together, I offer in-person sessions in the Hudson Valley, usually out of a local studio or rented workspace. You must pass a vetting check to qualify for these.

    These sessions require more planning, travel, and vulnerability and are priced accordingly:

    1:1 rates:

    • 1 hour: $199

    • 1.5 hours: $289

    • 2 hours: $369

    2 people: +$69/hour

    3 people: +$99/hour

    4+ people: +$49/hour/person

  • If you are Black or Indigenous, make below a living wage for your area, or you live in a country whose exchange rate puts US prices out of reach, please include some information about your circumstances and why you want a session, and we can negotiate a reduced rate.

    I may not be able to meet every need — I have limited availability for sessions and have my own bills to pay — but I will do my best to accommodate folks in need!

“Dagger is an educator who knows her stuff. Not only is her style accessible to novices, but she can keep the attention of us know-it-alls.”

—Lolita Wolf, educator

Pleasure is a skill.