Get kinky with someone who gets it.
Kink is full of joy, creativity, authenticity, connection, and trust — and it can be awkward, intimidating, and tough to navigate!
Get Licked! is for folks who want to:
expand their horizons and learn new ways to play
build stronger skills in kinks they already love
enjoy clearer, hotter, more organic communication with partners
connect and practice skills with fellow community members
I’m Dagger (she/her), an educator, community organizer, and pro top with 13+ years of experience. I think kink is magic, and I’m here to help you do more of it.
Virtual Classes
Curious about a new kink? Want to take your spicy skills up a notch? Study up with expert-crafted courses on pleasure, communication, and technique, live on Zoom.
1-on-1 Coaching
Need a deeper dive? Personalized sessions are great for solos, couples, polycules, and organizers who want a custom curriculum for their specific needs.
Worksheets
Coming soon: Learn at your own pace with digital resources on our class topics. Join the newsletter to be the first to know (and get a discount) when they drop.
Why study this stuff?
Everyone has a right to hot, exciting, trusting, enriching sexuality. But we’re not born knowing how to get there, and our schools, families, cultures, and media often set us up to fail. If you find yourself thinking…
“I’ve had this fantasy forever — I wish I knew how to do it for real.”
“How do I know if she likes it?”
“But what do I do with my hands?”
“I’m sick of 101 classes — I want to go deeper!”
… you’re normal! Let’s get into it together.
Why study with me?
I’ve been a lifestyle kinkster for 13 years and a kink professional for 8, which means I’ve read, watched, learned, and practiced this stuff for over a decade. Sharing what I’ve learned with others is the most rewarding work I get to do.
I’ve presented classes and demonstrations for Dark Odyssey, International Ms Leather and Bootblack, the International Pet and Trainer Contest, Lesbian Sex Mafia, Folsom Street East, and over a dozen orgs all over the Northeast United States. I also work as a kink community organizer, which means I’m constantly seeing what works and what doesn’t for educators, newbies, and experienced kinksters alike.
My classes combine theoretical frameworks, practical advice, and personal experience. (Put another way: I made mistakes so you don’t have to!) No matter which class you take, you’ll come away with real tools for pursuing your kinks and deepening your connections right away.